Just wondering: The New York Times turned up quite a story on the governor out there. It was solid enough that the governor, a former lawman who prosecuted his way into high office, came out and all but confirmed it in a meeting with reporters. That's all swell, and if one were to bet on the outcome, the governor will resign, and soon.
But there's one thing I don't get. When he went before the cameras, his wife went with him. She looked sad and somber but not shattered, which meant she was putting on a good show. But still: How does a guy who's admitting to hiring a call girl persuade his wife to stand up with him for the rite of public exposure?
Maybe she's demonstrating a love and commitment that is ready to endure the worst as well as the best of her marriage. That's what we who have married all vow in some form; though a vow of facing up to a theoretical future trial is one thing and dealing with an ugly fact in the here and now is another. Maybe something else is at work: the wife having the responsibility to fulfill the public role to the end.
Either way, standing up with someone who had wounded me so deeply is more than I think I could do. I'd be tempted to say, hey, you didn't need me when you were setting up your dates; you're going to have to deal with this one by yourself.
(I will add, though, that the governor in question does score a point by not subjecting the electorate to an "I did not have sex with that woman" drama.)